I’m 42. We were trying and trying and didn’t fall pregnant. We started conventional ivf for 6 times without success, and we decided on ivf with donor eggs. To get a result, to do something to have a family. The docs said we had 10% chance, I said “waste of money and time." All that time we felt like lab mice moving around and around, like guinea pigs.
A nurse I know in Sydney who knew someone who knew things said all the girls go to Greece and have a child and say “I’m pregnant.”
And we thought, hang on, what about Athens? And if you want something, if you search you find it. So we came to Dr Paraschos at EMBIO. Now I just want a result.
We only needed one week, one day with the airplane. But we took one more week. We said, Let’s stay a little bit and then go home. Acropolis was nice, the Acropolis museum, Plaka at night. We didn’t see Athens by night. By then we fell asleep like dead.
We’re cool with egg donation. I I don’t know how other people will be. In Australia it’s so strict. If we did that there, among the egg donation requirements, there’s a law that says if you adopt the other person’s part of their body, the donor egg for example, then you have to accept them to be part of your life. The woman that’s gonna donate goes with you to the clinic and registers to the clinic. From then on there’s no anonymity. That’s why no one does it in Australia. You only do donor egg ivf with relatives. But even if the egg donor is your sister, it’s not right. We want a child that’s gonna grow ours. Anything else is irrelevant.
I don’t know if it sounds cold, but it’s mine and his. Egg donation doesn’t make you part of my family for the rest of my life. Stupid rules, lots of paper work, too. Would you feel that child as your own? I would not. Not under those circumstances.
The egg donation process is not gonna make a difference. Motherhood is all in one who raises the child and who gives birth.
Embryo transfer was very good. No pain. Maybe I was too excited to feel anything. I can’t believe how calm I am. I could easily jump up and down!
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